The decision to participate in a gang bang should not be taken lightly; you need to make sure you’re in the right mental state to get the most out of it.
- Being the center of attention. It’s an awesome feeling to be lost in a sea of other people using you for their sexual pleasure.
- The challenge. Some people like to challenge themselves sexually and a gang bang is the ultimate challenge most people will ever face.
- Exploring Your Slutty Side. Group sex is a big taboo in our society, so many people get a rush from indulging in a sex act that is seen as the ultimate in slutty acts.
Gang bangs are typically high-energy, rougher, more athletically oriented sexual events, usually much more so than the standard single-partnered or threesome sex
If you’re overly concerned that people are going to think you’re a slut (if you consider that a negative), or if you’re not 100% emotionally confident with your decision to engage in a gang bang, you should hold off until those are no longer issues.
If you’re unsure about whether or not a gang bang is something you wish to do, one option you may wish to consider is serving as a fluffer at someone else’s fuckfest. This will allow you to observe what happens through the actual bang itself and give you a feel for what it’s like. At that point you can make a decision about becoming the guest of honor in your own special event.
As a general rule, if you’ve not experienced group sex before, it’s probably a good idea to start off small and see how you function in a group dynamic
If you have a spouse, life partner, or significant other, you’re obviously going to need to take his/her feelings into consideration.