The Signs That Tell It’s Love-Making
When a relationship is new, or even sometimes when it’s weathered, it can feel like your man is not making love to you when you are having sex. After all, what does making love look like as opposed to just fucking you? There are telltale signs your guy isn’t just having sex with you in a carnal way, and he legitimately enjoyed making love to you last night.
Possibly you just met someone, and you are unsure whether he is only in it for the sex or if he is actually making love to you and genuinely cares about you. These signs will help you figure out whether your man is using you for sex or making love to you.
1. He’s nervous about sex
If he’s showing signs of being nervous or scared, he’s actually making love to you, not just fucking you. Some signs of him being nervous or scared include he is shy, he is awkward – more than he would normally exhibit outside of the bedroom, and he is quiet. He is not confident and is not outwardly proud of anything bedroom-related.
He could be nervous or scared for a number of reasons. He may be nervous about what you think of him or him not living up to what he thinks you expect. That means he cares about what you think and it is actually important to him.
This is a sure sign he is making love to you. Another reason could be that he is scared he is going to mess up in some way. He is looking for things to be perfect, which means he is looking to make love with you.
If he did not care about what you thought, if he is overly confident in his ability, or if he isn’t worried about messing up because he won’t be along around for much longer, so he figures it’s nothing to worry about. This is how you know he is looking for a casual relationship that includes sleeping with you, not making love.