If you send a memory text too quickly, your ex may be on to you thinking you’re making a move. But use a memory that you guys talk about a lot and sounds neutral.
Stay out of any memories that celebrate your anniversary or big dates. Surprises for Valentines or your birthday are also a no go.
Or a sneaky little trick to get your ex to remind you of an experience. Bet you he’s wondering why you’re asking.
Remember, in Phase 1, you’re trying to initiate contact to see if your ex will respond. Keep the texts light and friendly. Make it as harmless as possible so your ex-boyfriend doesn’t feel there’s an agenda behind it.
Phase 2: Text To Show You Still Care
In this phase, we start to get a little more intimate with your ex by showing him support. Let him know you still care.
Maybe your ex is going through a tough time, and you want to let him know that you’re there for him. Or, perhaps his mom’s birthday is coming up, and you want to remind him. These texts drop little hints that you still care and remember things that are important to him.
Make this text all about your ex. Give him a subtle sign that you are rooting for him and that you’re still his cheerleader. Just don’t get too excited in your text that you know everything that’s going on with him.
Also, don’t send a reminder about something your ex might find surprising to hear from you. That will set off the stalker alarm!
The simple fact that you sent a short and sweet text will bring smiles to your ex. It shows that you still care, which is a big boost to him if he finds it helpful.
With Intimacy Booster texts, don’t expect a reply here. If you get a smiley face or a simple “thanks,” then congrats to you! That’s a huge sign that your ex appreciates you.
Phase 3: Validate Your Ex’s Feelings With A Hot Text
Phase 3 is all about validation. This is where things start to get a little hot. It’s now time to stop playing games and let your ex-boyfriend know how you feel.
This is where you dig deep and let your heart speak.